Headed in the right direction!

You can't know where life will take you, 

but you can commit to a direction.

                                                                                                                  Wendell Berry


                                                          

As someone trying to sell a book from a tiny hybrid press, I have felt incredibly uncertain in this phase of the-book-is-out! Now what? Am I doing enough? How will I know? What are my goals? Do I have goals? After the drafting, the revising, the editing, the tearing it apart and putting it back together again, after getting people to read, after the rejections, and more rejections, after the cover design, the layout, the gathering of blurbs, the presales. Afterafterafter. Now what?

Well, it seems like my uncertainty and the goodwill of people have collided and I am, in Berry's words, committing to a direction. And that is to simply go where people will have me. I say this with both gratitude, amazement, and a knowing. When you share the truth of your story, whether facing it head on or telling it slant (thank you, Emily Dickinson, for the choice!) people see the truth, feel it, and will respond, connect, be moved.

Day made. Life made. 

You guys....the way the audience responded to me at my first reading! The comments! The texts! The reviews! The Substack newsletter devoted to my book! The share by, gulp, Michael Perry! 

I pictured myself as the Little Engine That Could in human form. As a writer who took years to birth this book, I had no way of knowing how it would be received.  And slowly, I am starting to learn.

One golden rule in life is to not get attached to outcomes. And so I have shied away from numbers, something I have little control over. But I would be lying to say I am not attached to reading that people are seeing, not just in my story, but in some of the larger ideas I tried to present. I can't control what anyone will take from it, but I am so grateful to those who have been willing to share their thoughts. It reaffirms the direction I have always listed to, the people. 

It's against midwestern religion to toot your own horn and so, instead, take a look if you will, at what other people are saying. 

From Amazon

  • 5 out of 5 stars
    Wonderful love story to a family and the place they call home
    Reviewed in the United States on August 17, 2026

    Lisa Gray tells the story of her family and through that storyline we see the nature of rural America--the hardships, the love (of land and family), and the resilience. She is able to craft a story that makes a small town Iowa girl like me feel proud of the place I'm from (even when it disappoints me) and makes a solid case that our home is more than just flyover country.

  • 5 out of 5 stars
    Love
    Reviewed in the United States on August 21, 2026

    There is so much to love in these pages. The author's family members feel special to me. Story Avenue feels like part of my home. The zooming out on larger societal issues over the recent decades paired with the zooming into one real, and gorgeous family- it's just beautiful. Will be sharing with friends!

  • 5 out of 5 stars
    Captivating people and place
    Reviewed in the United States on August 16, 2026

    This book touched me very much. The experiences it portrays differ greatly from my own, and I found myself captivated by each of the people depicted, rooting for them, mourning with them, appreciating their unique humanity. And I grew to love the Iowa farm as they did even as I identified with the narrator's choosing a different life elsewhere. In polarized times, this story invites us, gently and with humor, to slow down and take a closer look.

  • On Substack


  • Jena is a mentor, writing coach, friend I met when we were both scholarship winners to a retreat in Vermont that shifted both of our lives. The best part is that shift brought us to each other. You can read more about how we met in her own words.





From Facebook

A simple share by Michael Perry will get some of his audience's eyes on me! 

His book was the first I'd read that combined humor, a healthy dose of affection without too much sentimentality as well as discernment- a keen observer of rural life and its people. 


 

Direct to me

Lisa!!!! I loves your book so much. I really appreciated learning about the struggles and joys of growing up on an Iowa farm. My family is from Iowa and there are no farmers. I grew up in Rochester where farm kids were bussed into town and knew little to nothing about things outside of town. I laughed and actually shed tears while reading. I love the way you spoke on the divide of politics but how a community can still care for one another all the while. I gushed about your book to my friends. Several of them were raised on farms. It sparked conversation we have never had through years of friendship. I am buying them each a copy of your book. I am so happy for you that all your hard work and perseverance has given us all a gift. A gift of knowing you and your family through hard times and good times. Love in all shapes and forms has carried you through and I felt that. Amazing book! 


Kris

Lisa - I finished your book this morning. You had me bawling my eyes out. I loved every minute of your book. You are amazing writer! Love the voice. Lovely snapshots of your family and memories and an overall amazing message. Thanks for sharing it with me and all of us. I will write a review soon. 
5 stars!
            Kelli

I just finished your book! I have known you for many years and I learned so much more about your life! Thank you for share such intimate and raw details of your life. It was a wonderful book! I must say the exciting part for me was seeing my name in a book! Thank you for sharing your life with me and the world! Congratulations on a job well done and you should feel so proud. You did it!!!!

            Susan

Lisa- you wrote such a lovely, lovely book. Brava! It was so much fun reading familiar stories and reading new ones I’ve never heard. I’ve learned more about you. It was a joy reading about all of your family members but especially your dad. I wish I knew him better. Your interweaving theme of “we aren’t like that” is brilliant. I remember you talking about it but had no idea of the impact it had on you. I hope one of those people stumbles upon your book and does a little self reflection. 
            Patty

Lisa-how can I get the words right…your story is AMAZING! Loved it! And I promise I will do what I can to spread it. Mailing the other 3 copies out to my sister to give the book club ladies and I cannot wait until we have a chance to talk about it! I am so lucky to have met you at MSU!!
            Jennifer


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